We only have limited time and energy to spend each day so it is important that we spend it the right way. I will list out the following main point that I think will allow you to traverse this tough journey for men. Let me say that many men never make it to the desire level of dance because is involve openness to criticism by others including women, it can be a humbling experience and you first have to accept that you know nothing and you are starting a journey. I admire all of the great dancers because it there is only one thing you know about a great dancer. They have remained passionate and relentless to make, the elements of musical timing, traffic cop, clear and firm but gentle leader all look so easy.
I suggest the following:
1. Dance more; Dancing is the only real practice for learning how to dance. Dance with everyone who will dance with you and have no shame. Do not fear rejection. Push through it.
2. Dance at different venues. Leave the dance politics at home and dance with as many partners as possible from as many studios as possible
3. Learn from as many instructors as possible. We are lucky to have to some of the best in the world here with us in Philly. I am not going to list everyone but you can see the many studios on our website. http://trinijunglejuice.com/sitcstudios.html
4. Dance 50% social/ 50% classes. For each of your Dance classes you take, Dance one social party. This allows you to practice and master the many aspect your instructor was teaching. I personally would learn a turn pattern on Tuesday, Dance out on Wednesday then come back on Thursday to correct any issues I had while leading the move. Then you got all weekend to master the pattern. Enjoy it.
5. Keep Spinning. If you do not have a partner to work with, you can practice your spotting and spinning. Do a lesson with some spinning experts to learn more.
6. Make it a Friendly Game Joe, Jessica and I once held a competition on who can get the most social dances in a night. The catch was if we danced with someone that we danced with before it did not count. It did not matter who won that night but it was fun, get the most dances you can when you go out.
7. Dream and Imagine. You body can only go where the mind has already gone. Listen to more Salsa Music and as you do, think of how your dances will turn out, how you will lead while you execute your patterns. Do this so you can start to feel the music and associate your patterns to the music. This will make it feel more natural when you hit the floor.
9. Rest; Lastly I will tell you that you have to get some rest. On the 7th day the lord rested and you will need to set up a day of rest for you too otherwise you will burn out.
I have a ton of more great tips and if you private message me, I would be happy to share my secrets.
your friend in Salsa
Stephen Choo Quan